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The following is a list of choices which represent the cost of our services. They may or may not include the casket or container required for visitation or viewing, burial, entombment or cremation.

You are in no way limited to these service options. You may itemize services in order to select only those which are right for you.

This package includes basic services of the funeral director and staff; embalming; preparation for viewing-including but not limited to cosmetizing and dressing of deceased; use of facilities and staff for viewing (per one day or a portion thereof); use of hearse for funeral service; transfer/flower vehicle; transfer of remains to the funeral home (within 40 miles); acknowledgement cards up to 50; memorial folders and printing up to 200; register book; transportation to crematorium and cremation fee.

The cremation charge is included in this package.

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Cremation Services

Christmas Service

Service Calendar

 Burial of Cremains

Funeral traditions have changed over the years.  As cremation becomes more popular, it poses new challenges not faced with the “traditional” funerals with caskets.  Obviously, the movement and burial of caskets requires different planning and equipment than is needed for urns. 

We are seeing these challenges first-hand in Spink County.  Please take a moment to read through these.  Your understanding and compliance may help many future generations of your family.

-         Mobility:

An urn of ashes is obviously much easier to transport long distances than a casket.  We receive cremains regularly from all over the country.  Right now, the United States Postal Service is the only delivery system to handle cremains.  However, it is also very easy for a family to transport their loved one’s cremains in a private vehicle or by mailing them to a local friend or relative. 

 

-         Burial:

Here is where we are running into many problems.  We have had several local cemetery sextons call us after they have discovered cremains being buried by family in a “private, family get together.” Families are choosing not to notify the cemetery sexton for multiple reasons. However, without the sexton being notified, cemetery records will not be accurate and may cause problems in the future:

o  Sextons are responsible for marking graves for the grave diggers who are hired to dig graves.  The grave digger relies on the sexton for marking the grave accurately before they dig and sextons rely on accurate records in order to instruct the grave diggers appropriately.  When individuals are not working with the cemetery’s sexton, there could be serious issues in the future:

§  Each cemetery has guidelines on how many urns may be buried with a casket or multiple urns in an individual grave. 

§  If the sexton is unaware of an urn burial, the grave digger may unintentionally dig up or do damage to an urn already in the grave.  The sextons are trying to keep detailed records of how many urns are in a grave and their position within that grave.

o  If your loved one already has a headstone in a cemetery but will not be physically buried there, please notify the sexton so the record can show no physical burial where there is a headstone.  It will save confusion in the future.

 

-         Genealogy

o  Ifa person is buried without any documentation, there is a good chance that the next generations will not know of the final resting place of that family member. 

o  As more and more cemeteries make the transition to computerized programs for burial records, if a loved one is not documented, there will be no record online of those the sexton does not know about.

o  Last summer, for example, we had a family call the funeral home from California.  They were looking for their “Aunt Martha.”  They thought another family member brought “Aunt Martha” (cremains in an urn) to a local cemetery for burial and wanted us to confirm that. The cremains were not forwarded to the funeral home, the sexton had no record of “Aunt Martha” and no documentation was ever filed to document final disposition with the sexton, the county or the state.  To this day, “Aunt Martha” is still “missing” because the family cannot find anyone who remembers what happened and the family member who supposedly transported “Aunt Martha” has since passed away.  In fact, they believe “Aunt Martha’s” ashes may have been put in her favorite teapot instead of a traditional urn and there is a chance that “Aunt Martha” may have been unintentionally thrown away when the family cleaned the apartment out.   This family may never know what became of “Aunt Martha.”

 

-         Documentation

o  Documentation is required to properly register a burial. 

§  It starts with the local cemetery sexton as discussed above. 

§  A burial permit needs to be filed with the county where burial occurs.

§  The burial permit is also used as registration with the state.

o  In an effort to improve our own records of final disposition, we have implemented the following at the funeral home:

§  We complete a “receipt” document for each cremation that is in our care. 

·        We complete this document with burial information when we handle the burial and this documentation remains with the individual’s file in a fireproof cabinet.

·      When a family takes their loved one from our care, we have them sign the receipt and only the person who signed the contract is able to remove their loved one from the funeral home.  We make a copy of their driver’s license to put on file as well.

o  We include the family’s intention for final disposition.  For example, we make a note on the receipt that as of that date and time, the family indicated that their loved one would be “scattered in the Black Hills in the summer of 2018” or “committal service and burial planned for May 12, 2018.”  If the family changes their mind after they leave of course, we only have on record what their intention was that day.  

We encourage each family to protect their loved one who is being laid to rest.  Please take the time to contact the sexton of the cemetery and follow the regulations in place at each cemetery.  As a step to protect the urn and your loved one in the same manner that a casket is protected, some cemeteries now require an urn vault for burial.   Please allow the cemetery sextons (many of whom are volunteers) to keep accurate records for your family in the future. 

We share this information because we are witnessing family’s anguish not being able to find their loved one’s final disposition and/or place of rest.  Please help us, the sextons and the grave diggers help your family for years to come. If you would like more information, please do not hesitate to contact us at the funeral home               (605-472-2444).

The following sextons have graciously allowed us to publishtheir contact information:

CEMETERY LOCATION            NAME OF CEMETERY             SEXTON NAME           SEXTON PHONE #

            Ashton                                     Ashton                                     Bob Oberfell                 605-380-5597

            Athol                                        Athol Catholic                         Bob Woodring             605-460-2853

            Athol                                        Athol                                         Deb Christenson         605-460-0161 

           Doland                                     Doland                                     Joe Remily                     605-450-0133

           Frankfort                                 Mount Hope                            Alan Johnson                605-472-1741

           Frankfort                                 St. Ann’s Catholic                    Bob Knox                      605-472-0971

           Mellette                                  Calvary                                      Greg Morgan                 605-228-3456

           Mellette                                  Mellette                                    Craig Oberle                 605-380-2535

          Northville                                Plainview                                 Lyle Peterson                605-887-3522

          Redfield                                   Greenlawn                              City of Redfield            605-472-4550

          Redfield                                   St. Bernard’s Catholic            Kelly Hyke                    605-472-2444

          Rockham Grace                     Rockham                                 Mark Baxter                  605-450-0206

          Tulare                                      Garfield                                    Ted Price                        605-596-4315

          Tulare                                      Graceland                                Loren Marzahn            605-460-2265

          Tulare                                      St. John’s                                  Wayne Binger              605-450-0255

          Tulare                                      Tulare                                       Ted Price                       605-596-4315

          Zell                                          St. Mary’s Catholic                  Jerry Zens                     605-472-2088

 

We thank all sextons and grave diggers for their hard work, attention to detail and willingness to help us serve families with professionalism and compassion.  And we thank families in advance for assisting the cemetery sextons keep accurate records.

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